God is light: Jesus described Himself as 'the light of the world', but He told His disciples that they are the light of the world! Does that statement make them like God? No.
Unsettled relationships can get in the way of worship. Can we say that we love the Lord our God with all our heart and soul and strength, and yet not love our neighbour as ourselves?
There are no winners in divorce. Marriage breakdown is always a painful business, often after a long process of eroded trust and the suspicion of infidelity.
Enemies are hostile; they seek to take what does not belong to them, attacking people and property to gain power over them. Naturally, we hate our enemies and want bad things to happen to them.